Treat others how you want to be treated

This is a rant...yes it might get a little ugly...but I don't give a hell!!

So first I would like to start off by saying how much I HATE people who are rude and ugly! So the short story is my little brother stayed the night a couple of nights ago, he smokes, instead of throwing his butts in the yard he put them in the trash inside. Well obviously that was a huge to do because Monday my mother in law stayed home because she was sick because "the smell of cigarette smoke makes her sick" and she couldn't sleep at all because Dilyan was there. I mean if you ask me, it probably had more to do with the fact that we had a time change and she wasn't the only who couldn't sleep well Sunday!! Not even a week before she was telling my siblings "oh come over whenever you'd like". You can't go changing your story whenever it suits you!

So I took Dilyan places to apply Monday and he got a job, and has orientation Thursday. So he asked Roxann if he could stay the night Wednesday and she was so hateful about it! I just walked off. Needless to say, I did not stay at my house last night. I knew if I had, I probably would've exploded on her. You don't treat my family like that and just expect me to sit back and not have anything to say.

After I slept on it at my friends house and I've had all day to think about it. Yeah it's their house, we're just living here. But the point of the matter is, she could've handled it a whole hell of a lot better than she did!! She knowing my brother can't drive, could've said yeah you can stay but you can't smoke while you're here. And he would've totally understood that!! But NO, she had to be rude! They wonder why Nathan and I never want to stay here long! Who wants to live with someone like that, someone they have to walk on egg shells around. Because if you do one thing wrong you're treated like shit!! I so can not wait to have my own place again!!

So now because Dilyan can not stay here, it looks like I will be having to pay for a motel for him for a couple of weeks until he can have enough money to rent an apartment down here or something. Which by the way, pisses me the fuck off!!

The moral of this story is. Don't offer someone something, and then change it because they're lifestyle. It's not like you don't know how he lives his life already!!  Karma is a bitch and she will be coming for you!!

T